Hallos lovely!!!
It feels like forever since our last convo.
How was February?
I hope you've been SLAYING your goals.
February has been fulfilling for me, except for the fact that my bank account isn't making the many "kpakam" sounds as I had imagined๐ต๐ถ๐ท๐ฐ.
But it's a work in progress sha.
After all, Rome wasn't built in a day. Let's not stop setting the building blocks till we reach the finish line.
It's just February, a lot can change in 10 months.
Before I delve into this month's post; which is rather an unusual one, let me ask this...
...Did you get Roses๐น๐น, Chocolates๐ซ๐ซ, Gift or anything special during the Valentine celebration๐?
I mean from a "Lover" oo, not a sister, brother or friend.
If yes, congrats to you sis๐✌.
But if you fall into my category, don't worry nne.
This post came while I was thinking about you and all our sisters that are single (to stupor)๐๐๐๐๐๐.
I can't say I was led to write this, but I certainly was inspired to.
Plus my February read was awesome too. If I'm to write a summary it will be:
"A woman ought FIRST, find God, develop an intimate and consistent relationship with Him, find herself (Purpose),and finally start a relationship with a man."
However, if you have found God, and you have a consistent intimate relationship with Him and you don't have a man yet...
..."Camdan" girl, don't carry the matter on your head like gala.
"I have decided to take the matter into my own hands" (in Janette ikz's voice) By writing this letter to our potential man and possibly future husband.
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Dear Future Husband,
Some of us are done waiting for you to come and sweep us off our feet.
We realised that we've wasted time carrying your matter on our head like bread for too long,
Hoping that one day we'll bump into your photo-shoot like Olajumoke and become a celeb in your abode.
But no more!!!
We've awakened to The fact that we are GOOD
And finding us is one way for you to obtain favour from God.
So while you're busy wondering why you've not obtained favour yet.
We'll be busy slaying our purpose,
And cooking all the delicacies our mama taught us,
For we, ourselves and us.
Being our own best friends
And doing all the interesting stuffs all by ourselves.
If you like come,
If you like no come,
We will keep praying for you.
That God will open your eyes.
And if your eyes have been opened already,
We will ask God to give you the boldness to speak,
And if you've spoken already,
We'll ask God to give you the grace to go on on knee,
And if it's resources that's still keeping you,
We'll ask God to supply your needs according to His riches,
As for "that"favour....
For now, enjoy the one you get from man and God too,
But,
There's this one that comes with finding us,
There's this one that comes with finding us,
And I'm afraid until you do, you...
Find us first....
Until then,
We won't stop praying for you
And slaying for our Maker.
Arestmacase!
From a concerned sister of,
The Association of S.C.S
(Single Christian Sisters)
To the brothers of,
Association of S.C.B
(Single Christian Brothers)
#Aforcetoreckonwith
Oh my!...that letter tho!...nice one Chichi...m sure those concerned will take note lol...
ReplyDeleteThey know themselves ๐๐๐๐๐
DeleteWell said honey, a lot of relationship problems come from not knowing ourselves enough as an individual and yet we want to journey with another individual who also have no clue who they are and what they want out of life. So when you know who you are,it's easier to determine who can complement you. More grace dear!
ReplyDeleteThanks sweetie❤❤❤. You have written well๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฏ
DeleteLol.. I enjoyed this post. Nicely said hun. We'll keep slaying for God jare..
ReplyDeleteThank you so much. Thanks for reading. #keepslaying #forGod
DeleteI love this post. It's quite interesting and encouraging. More grease to your elbow CHICHI.
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading sis. Amen!!! BTW, I Love this your picture๐๐
DeleteThanks dear...
Delete����☺ grinning,smiling,& chuckling.All together, don't know which was more sha.Well put sis, couldn't agree less with those thoughts. More power to your elbow darling.God's Word over your life He shall perform.
ReplyDeleteAmen darling. God bless you. Never lose that smile☺๐☺๐
DeleteMore wisdom maim. This is beautiful.
ReplyDeleteGlad you read. Thanks dear
DeleteMe i don't know anything about relationship oh. But in addition to all those prayers, add one for the wisdom to handle your differences and the changing dynamics in his life. Nice write up
ReplyDeleteOkay daddy. #added already. Thanks for reading.
DeleteHmmmmmmmm, God wee epp us to open our mouth in Jesus name! Bet, the SCSs too should position themselves o jare to epp our "ultimate-search-for-a-life-partner" ministry. Ok, bye. *backtomywork*
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DeleteLol!!! God we epp all of us... All the ones in Singles Fellowship nko. Pay me, I'll epp you talk to one. ๐๐๐๐๐
DeleteHmmmmmmmm, God wee epp us to open our mouth in Jesus name! Bet, the SCSs too should position themselves o jare to epp our "ultimate-search-for-a-life-partner" ministry. Ok, bye. *backtomywork*
ReplyDeleteWell Sis, you have said it all and I think the prayer is not enough ooo and the economy is not favourable yet. But come to think of it, did you pray that when sis is approached they should have the discerning spirit to know who is who and to know the purpose of the guy and not let needs cloud their judgement.....
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ReplyDeleteAMAZING WRITEUP.... Because of this writeup I'm awoken and my eyes are opened o.... Chi-Chi tell of the SCS that here I come...
ReplyDeleteCaptivating and sincerely written!More grace in Jesus name
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